Celánia
New Settler
Fang of Ariadne
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Post by Celánia on Feb 2, 2004 1:00:16 GMT
To be the anti-sympathy one here.
I wouldn't understand why you would want to leave because of a disagreement with one person off the board. As long as no vindictiveness is shown that affects the roleplaying, it is fair.
You can't love everyone in the world and you can't expect everyone to love you. A disagreement with one person shouldn't stop you enjoying yourself.
From the sound of it, you want a full public apology including humiliation of the other party. If you don't get it, you will leave. This makes people who want this place to be a success feel bad that a completely off-topic, out of character reason could make you want to leave the rest of us who are trying to be helpful and enjoy roleplaying with you. Some of the best roleplayers I know are complete gits OOC, but i still roleplay with them.
There is more than one rep if you feel one of them would be unable to handle your complaint without bias. So I don't consider that an acceptable excuse either.
Face it, logic might make you consider staying wheras everyone can do sympathy. Don't look at this too harshly.
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Post by Korrlok on Feb 2, 2004 1:45:02 GMT
WHOAH!!!!
I never said anything about a PUBLIC humiliation. A private apology and retraction of remarks made is all I'm asking for and will be fine.
As for what you're saying about the Reps, it won't work. End of story. There are extenuating circumstances that I can't go into, but it won't work.
I'm not expecting to "love everyone or to be loved by everyone". But I'm unable to remain on this board as long as the person in question remains here, at least not without a SERIOUS reconciliation.
I should also reiterate the fact that I only rejoined the forum on a temporary basis. This is more a case of it making me decide against making a permanent return.
You don't know the facts and for discretion's sake I can't reveal them, so please just respect my decision.
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Celánia
New Settler
Fang of Ariadne
Posts: 54
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Post by Celánia on Feb 2, 2004 1:57:42 GMT
i mightn't know the facts, but i have heard both sides of the story. you just seem to expect a lot of sympathy and 'please stay' attention-giving messages. im respecting your decision, but im making sure you've questioned it suitably as well.
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Post by Korrlok on Feb 2, 2004 2:00:16 GMT
No I do not expect any sympathy messages or "please stay" begging posts. In fact, I hadn't expected any replies at all.
And you HAVEN'T heard both sides of the story, because I haven't given mine.
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Celánia
New Settler
Fang of Ariadne
Posts: 54
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Post by Celánia on Feb 2, 2004 2:09:07 GMT
i thought that your posts said enough based on what i had already heard but i will say i am wrong if that's what you want and let you carry on and leave in peace. no more arguments or questions asked.
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Post by Kully on Feb 2, 2004 3:15:22 GMT
Well, the deletion sort of makes sense since Korrlok was going to be a one off character anyway, but remember the board is always here should you wish to return.
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Post by Korrlok on Feb 2, 2004 7:57:08 GMT
Thank you, Kully, but no thank you. The damage is not so severe that there can never be peace, but as things stand I will never return to this forum.
And Celania, what you've "already heard" elsewhere, by definition, can't be my side of the story can it? If you actually read what I have said in its own right, you'll see that I have revealed practically nothing. It's called being discreet.
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Post by Young Grimwold on Feb 2, 2004 14:54:36 GMT
I am very sorry that a problem developed. I hope that whatever course of action you choose gives you peace of mind. Thank you for all the positives that you have brought to the KM Community.
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